Label: East Coast Empire Records - ECE04 • Format: CD • Country: US • Genre: Rock • Style: Hardcore, Punk
Saying "I love you" can become a form of punctuation in a long-term relationship. And there's nothing wrong with this. Expressing love often is a good thing! And it's a nice way to check in with your partner each day -- or multiple times a day.
How often do you say those three words, "I love you," without stopping to think about the fact that you love this person? Most of the time, right? Again, there's nothing wrong with this. We're all busy. We have Something To Say - Various - The Harder They Come to do, Facebook statuses to update, weeds to pull, mail to open, sex to have. If we paused to consider what it means to love someone every time we said "I love you," we'd never have time to shop for groceries.
That all said, sometimes it's nice to stop and actually think about how much your partner means to you. Especially the parts that make you blush. Just don't use them all up in one day! You're so effing hot. That sneaky swear word is there to say: I'm so overwhelmed by how good-looking you are that only an f-bomb will truly convey my feelings. We like the specificity of this. It's not just that you love your partner more than you used to -- it's that today you actually sat down and thought about the fact that your love grew in the past 24 hours.
You just made me laugh so hard I almost peed my pants. OK, maybe skip the pee mention. But you get the idea. Fortunately, for long-term monogamous couples, a sense of humor doesn't droop in the same way an aging penis or aging boobs do. Still, it's easy to forget how funny your partner is. This is a reminder to take the time to make each other laugh I love your body. When's the last time you said something like this to your partner? Sure, they know you love them, but do they know you still lust after their body?
Stare and ogle all you like -- at Only Sixteen - Dr. Hook - The Hits point in a relationship, this starts Something To Say - Various - The Harder They Come feel like a compliment.
I hate everybody today, but you -- you I can stand. Because sometimes a muted compliment is the best compliment of all. And on some days, Red Lantern Girls - Vetiver - To Find Me Gone best we can hope for in marriage is that we're with someone we can standday in and day out.
Standing back and admiring your partner is a way to increase the erotic distance between the two of you I love it when we talk, and I love it when we don't. Talk is cheap, but companionable silence is something you have to work for. You look even better now than when I met you. Because aging gets everyone down. Even better if you can be specific: Find something about your partner that has improved with age -- a leaner face, perhaps? Because it doesn't always have to be missionary when it's monogamous, and it doesn't always have to be "making love," either.
It's too easy for us women to convince ourselves to settle for less. We're so helpful and accommodating, so eager to please and afraid of rejection that we're quick to give up the things we need, including when it comes to sex.
What we need to see is that doing this will leave us chronically frustrated. While it's true that every relationship requires a certain amount of compromise, going without the things that we really need just doesn't work. We'll end up unhappy in the relationship or resentful toward our partner. The bottom line is, we need to know what we can't live without, sexually, and what we just can't live with.
We ignore these non-negotiables at the expense of a fulfilling sex life.
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